It seems to be so nice to blog after sooooo many days. *sigh*
This post contains a glimpse of my anger, please avoid if you have a feint heart :P
Privacy, peace, space, silence it all matters so much and is evident that a person should be given this right. I always had and will have respect for each and everyone who value others privacy and personal space. I detest people who read others text messages, evesdropers, who enter a closed room without knocking, and the ones who pop their head in while reading a book or newspaper (or even the computer screen while writing a mail or chatting). Even gossiping can be taken as a n invasion of private space, a person may not tell you "please don't repeat this to others" it is sometimes your duty to now better. I have some people in my family who ask me to repeat everything whenever I talk to a cousin or a friend.
A few days back my cousin/friend (labelled: x )had come along with her parents. While the senior citizens gossiped their brains out in another room, my cousin, who is a year elder to me, and I sat chatting in my room. We had a nice chat for about an hour and half and didnt even bother to go see what our 'amma's' were up to. Later we all said good bye and she left. It was what hapened next that infuriated me the most!
My aunt (not the visitor) has been staying at our place along with her two daughters, who are a decade elder to me. One of those cousins (the elder one) is a sensible being, while my aunt and the other cousin are not so sensible. As soon as the visitors left I went to their room. We were all munching the leftover snacks, that we served the guests, and everyone except me reviewing their previous couple of hours. It was then that my aunt asked what my cousin and I were talking about, I said "nuthing much". I dont have the habbit of reporting my conversation to others, unless it is a news, a strage behavior (of a guy maybe :P), a funny incident or an event.
You may think that what my aunt asked was just a casual question, that is how I took it as well. But, she persisted on the question and asked me what conversation we had had. I didnt reply, I was a little annoyed, I get irritated even if my mom asks me such a question, though she seldom asks such things (although I am obliged to answe her propery and truthfully, even though I don't answer completely :P),. A minute or so later, I got out of the room and eventually forgot about all this. Except for the fact that my cousin 'x' was a fan of sidney sheldon :O
Later that night after dinner as I was watching a funny proramme on TV, the younger of the two cousins staying at my place comes and asks "you and 'x' were talking for such a long time, what were you two blabbing about?"
I ask : "why?? "
She: "you were talkin for a long time, what were you two discussing? "
I : "Why?"
This time her mother comes along and asks me the same question " what is it that both of you were talking about?"
I was infuriated! I don't get why these people cant mind thir own business!! aargh! And how dare they anger me like this while I was happily giggling and watching TV ??!?!
I didn't reply to their query, my annoyance could be seen on my face. I just turned and watched what was on the TV. Lucky them I didn't balktalk/retort !
A few minutes later I got up and complained about this to my Mom, my dad told me to let it be, but I was too angry to do so. I don't compliain about others to my parents much but this time I wanted to put a stop, a full stop :P.
What does it matter to them of what I speak? They are not the type of people who can keep without gossiping. This same aunt, a few years ago starte speading rumours that I told her I would only come/visit India again if I would be getting married. :O This was due to my statement that said "i will visit next year if my cousin is getting married"
There is a limit to what all I can tolerate!!